1. Use Reason
Believe that they are basically good.
Appeal to their reason.
Make reasonable rules and sanctions, explain them to the youth. Say why it is good for them to follow these rules.
Use: ‘Word in the ear’ – meet individual youth briefly informally and suggest to them very calmly the behaviour you expect from them.
Deal with individual misbehaviour individually; and not punish the whole group.
If you believe that people can reason out just as you do, then there is no need to offer corporal punishment.
2. Use Religion
Realise that human beings are also spiritual.
Appeal to their faith and conscience.
Accompany them towards a higher sense of purpose in their life, and motivate them to dream big.
Help them bring their faith to life – this is spirituality.
3. Use Loving Kindness
Realise that we all want to love and be loved.
Appeal to the heart of young people.
Begin on a note of deep compassion towards people under your […]
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